Are gender behaviours pre-programmed in the DNA?
I birthed two children with the Y chromosome.

My older son, Dances with Shrapnel, was still in diapers,
but loved to show off his linguistic (s)kills.
He saw a caterpillar outside during our walk, and
stomped it with great enthusiasm and emphasis.
He pointed matter of factly to it, and said “Dead”.
Not bug or caterpillar. Dead.

The younger, Ass Burger Boy, not so much.
We’re in the garden. He finds a worm.
He holds it, looking at it in wonder.
Whispers: “This is my worm.”
Then excitedly: “I have a pet!”
Adorable.
Mom explains the worm will die out of its habitat, because
it is one of God’s wild creatures.
Mom also assures him that he can come outside Every. Single.
Day. and visit his worm.

Dances with Shrapnel would never have fallen for that one.
His worm would be so dead.

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This entry was posted on Sunday, November 11th, 2007 at 5:22 pm and is filed under Ass Burger Boy, Dances with Shrapnel, little bits. You can follow any responses to this entry through the RSS 2.0 feed. Both comments and pings are currently closed.

2 Responses to “Gender behaviours: nature or nurture”

Just Beachy Says:

My son’s worm would be dead as well. Then he would cry because the worm was dead. bleh.

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zoe Says:

i come from a hugely male dominated family. they would all have dead worms. then they would try to make another brother eat them.

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